The In-Between Life: Holding Work, Creativity, and What Matters Most
- Julie Ruane
- Apr 20
- 1 min read
Updated: May 14

There’s a version of life I used to imagine—where everything had its place.
Work stayed in work hours.
Creative ideas had wide open space.
Home projects fit neatly into a free Saturday.
But that’s not the season I’m in.
Instead, life feels more layered than that.
A full day of meetings, follow-ups, and decisions.
Ideas for blog posts and products that keep pulling at me.
A mental list of things at home that need to get done before the weather shifts.
And right in the middle of all of it—
a Mahjong night I won’t miss.
My day job is structured, fast-paced, and demanding.
It’s calendars filled with conversations, solving problems, and keeping things moving.
Then there’s the creative side—
writing, building Next Chapter, creating something meaningful.
And real life continues—
projects at home, responsibilities that don’t wait.
But here’s what I know now:
I’m not waiting until things calm down to enjoy my life.
This past weekend, I went on a spring stroll with a good friend—
walking through our little town, collecting a flower at each shop.
Now those flowers sit on my counter—
a quiet reminder of time well spent.
In this season, I’ve made a decision:
Community isn’t something I fit in.
It’s something I build around.
This is what balance looks like now:
choosing what matters most—and letting the rest work around it.
What’s one thing in your life that isn’t negotiable anymore?



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